1. Sounds like you could use help to plan trips.
2. Do you typically let hostel staff bool home visits from doctors? Sounds like a very strange idea
3. How do you justify the claim that only Rich American Jews will be treated kindly? Did anyone say anything to you to make you feel unwelcome because of your race or country of origin?
This reeks of racism.
4. "...anyone else is treated like a second rate citizen" - funny! just a gentle reminder that you are a visitor and not a citizen to start with...